How To Get That Job You Really Want

How To Get That Job You Really Want

Pic by @shotsbyfifi Trying to find a new job is always daunting. Whether you're planning to jump ship from a different job or you&#...
Let's Talk About Emergency Contraception

Let's Talk About Emergency Contraception

Let’s talk about sex, and contraception, and what you should do when your contraception plan doesn’t quite work out. This blog post is ...
Losing Someone To Competitivity

Losing Someone To Competitivity

This story starts with my love for a man. Doesn't it always? I dream of a day when I've run out of stories to tell about men who&...
Why I Talk About Taboo Topics

Why I Talk About Taboo Topics

When I first started YouTube, I was doing so for no reason other than trying to satisfy my boredom. I had many months of   nothing a...
Living With Depression & Working Full-time

Living With Depression & Working Full-time

I was diagnosed with depression for the first time when I was 16. I'm confident that I first started to feel the effects of depressi...
On Handling Online Hate & Criticism

On Handling Online Hate & Criticism

Sharing my life online has come with a fair amount of criticism. I have spoken about this before, but it's not until this year that I...
There Is No Such Thing As "Too Much Sex"

There Is No Such Thing As "Too Much Sex"

If you don't follow me on Twitter, you might have missed my angry response rant to the BBC Radio 5 and Amber Davies' new "ru...
On Sex Positivity, Masturbation & Other Taboos

On Sex Positivity, Masturbation & Other Taboos

A year-and-a-bit ago, I decided my YouTube channel & content had become stale with "2nd-channel-worthy" content. There was ...
My Mindfulness & Self-Care Practices

My Mindfulness & Self-Care Practices

I wrote this on a plane. I was on my way back to London after having spent a few days in Portugal with my family. The morning I left Lond...
"That" Relationship

"That" Relationship

Photo by  Jon D Barker There is nothing easy or simple about leaving an emotionally and/or physically abusive relationship. All the sign...
What Smear Tests Are REALLY Like

What Smear Tests Are REALLY Like

Smear tests are one of those things that make a lot of women profusely sweat and perform extra kegels as they involuntarily clench their ...
On Self-Respect in Relationships

On Self-Respect in Relationships

Pic from September 2014 At my core, I'm a forgiving person. It takes a lot to push me over the edge and get me angry. My ability to ...
We Don't Have To Share Everything

We Don't Have To Share Everything

I'm almost writing this as a bit of a video script, but I think it's also important to have it written down for days where I need a ...
New Year's Resolutions

New Year's Resolutions

I never used to like the idea of new year's resolutions because I sucked at setting them, and I sucked even more at keeping them. Every ...